things she told us... ...I always admired Aunt Linda for her parties becasue no matter how they turned out or who came her smile made it a party and everytime I through a party, I thought about how she did hers and learned from it. I remember when I through a birthday party for Nailina and she came up behind me and told me how good of a job I do at my parties...I smiled and said "thanks to you"...it's a small memory but it meant so much from the queen of the parties...I'll always remember that!...Jaima ...a few months before the wedding, Mel and I were having a disagreement and I was venting with Lin and mom, I remember her telling me "Jai you can see how much Mel loves you, he cherishes you and we can all see that when he's with you. That's what you need to hold on to." and now when we have an arguement I think of that and I can step away from our problem....Jaima I have a habit of always comparing myself to others. She told me don't ever do that because you can loose the value of you..and that would be our loss, so for you hon, and to your memory, I will try to start a new page an know your out there somewhere watching over us all an loving us as you always have....Cathy